# (2023-02-23) Q&A session relating to Nibbana
Tags:: [[Indriya Samvara|Indriya Saṁvarā]], [[Nibbana]], [[Kama|Sensual Pleasures]]
- https://youtu.be/eyjEJiVfkWc
- Great video on Indriya samvara and nibbana
- When Sila improves, you become more observant and wisdom increases.
- because you're no longer lost in the worldly thoughts (due to involvement with the 6 senses) and is able to *observe* ***everything*** around you.
- the mind is now in more "samadhi", and hence have more "panna".
- Spiritual v.s. worldly
- Spiritual = experiencing the **_same_** worldly things, but ***NOT*** getting ***==associated==*** with (attached to) them.
- Worldly = experiencing the same things, but heavily associated.
- [[Indriya Samvara|Indriya Saṁvarā]] it not doing *ANYTHING special*, but simply stop engaging in the 6 senses as *if they're **special*** (E.g. due to names)!
- i.e. stopping the [[Sankhara]]!!
- there is, in fact, no pleasure in the 6 senses!! ***Only suffering** from holding them!!*
- Eryu: e.g. today, when staying at a Hawaii hotel and seeing a "nice" view of a golf course, the mind then runs towards thinking in the future how do I again book the same room with the same view? It's so much preparations!!!
- @@ When you let go of whatever is ***prepared***, you're automatically in ***nibbana***.
- you don't need to (and cannot) ***seek*** nibbana! #eryu/learning
- Matt: Nibbana is not to be ***gained***!! But when you give up everything then there's nibbana!
- because when consciousness is not grasping the 6 sense stimulus, it becomes ***pure***, and it *experience **itself***.
- @@@@ *Sense pleasures* are ***real***! But they're ***insatiable***!! — they are ***gone*** *the **very moment*** they arise!!
- they're also very minute compared with *jhanic pleasure*.
- Jhanic pleasure works the same way! You ***throw out*** the previous jhana when you attain the next!
- the sensual pleasure looks like shit when you attain higher Jhanas 😂
- and eventually you throw the 8th jhana and attain nibbana