# Kodha (Anger) ![[Dhp - 17. Kodhavagga#^deva-3-things|Kodhavagga (Dhammapada)]] > [!success] No anger when others are angry — In Akkosasutta ([SN7.2](https://suttacentral.net/sn7.2/en/sujato)) > **When you get angry at an angry person** > _Tasseva tena pāpiyo,_ > > **you just make things worse for yourself**. > _yo kuddhaṁ paṭikujjhati;_ > > **==When you don’t get angry at an angry person==** > _Kuddhaṁ appaṭikujjhanto,_ > > **==you win a battle hard to win==**. > _saṅgāmaṁ jeti dujjayaṁ._ > > --- > When you know that the other is angry, > _Ubhinnamatthaṁ carati,_ > > **you act for the good of both** > _attano ca parassa ca;_ > > **yourself and the other** > _Paraṁ saṅkupitaṁ ñatvā,_ > > **==if you’re mindful and stay calm==**. > _yo sato upasammati._ ## Suttas - [[Dhp - 17. Kodhavagga]] - SN7.2 Akkosasutta ([link](https://suttacentral.net/sn7.2/en/sujato)) - Do not be angry at those who are angry at you! (Using simile of not accepting a meal) #simile/buddha - MN15 Anumānasutta ([link](https://suttacentral.net/mn15/en/sujato)) - 16 Qualities in people who are hard to admonish / teach (starting with anger) - [[MN21 Kakacūpamasutta]] - Hidden anger is still anger :) ### Related ![[Irritable (Angry, Furious, Quick-tempered) v.s. Gentle (Kind)#^qsrt10]]